X11 remote controlling TV & Soundbar

I have an older Toshiba LCD TV and a newer Bose Soundbar.  I am trying to program my X11 remote to control power for both, and audio for the soundbar.  I can only get the remote to control only one device, so it either controls ONLY the soundbar or ONLY the TV.

I've reset the remote to defaults, I've entered the TV before the soundbar, I've entered the soundbar before the TV, but no matter what I do it will only control one.  Any thoughts?

I used to have this soundbar working just fine with a remote in a different room and different TV, but it just won't sync up the way I want it to now.