Swapping eSIM on two active devices

I've been trying to swap my eSIM into a different active device on my account.  I want my number on my wife's phone and her number on my current phone.  (I ordered the wrong color when buying the new iPhone 14). Obviously it's not as easy as it used to me by just swapping the physical SIM card.  I called in to support multiple times and they said they've swapped the numbers.  On my Xfinity mobile online account it's showing that it has been completed, however, it hasn't.  Has anyone had success swapping eSIMs?  I'm not talking about transferring the old eSIM to a new phone either.  Thanks!